The Lord has a hand in all things. Our trials are for a purpose, and even when the damage done is self inflicted and has a selfish motive behind it, we can still learn from it. These are opportunities given to us so we can grow, and if we don't embrace them then we be stuck, wallowing in our own unhappiness and self pity. Watch for the messages He is trying to get to you. Go forward with faith.
"Increased faith is what we most need. Without it, the work would stagnate. With it, no one can stop its progress." -President Gordon B. Hinckley
“If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye shall say unto this mountain, Remove hence to yonder place; and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you”
-Matthew 17:20